After you’ve been cracked wide open.

 

 

 Perhaps the biggest tragedy of our lives is that freedom is possible,

yet we can pass our years trapped in the same old patterns.

~Tara Brach~

You’ve been cracked wide open by loss, by a marriage, by a slow unraveling you couldn’t name at the time.

And afterward, you did everything right. You read the books, did the work, followed the “rules” of healing—yet the weight remains.

Here’s what I’ve come to understand: the crack isn’t the problem. The crack is the opening.

You were taught that being a good woman—a good mother, daughter, wife—means running yourself ragged. So you give your power away, a little at a time, and call it love. But choosing yourself isn’t the opposite of love. It is love. It’s alignment with your oversoul, the divine aspect of who you are. And every time you choose it, your vibration rises and your light burns brighter.

We think we’re fighting our own anxiety, our own blocks. Often we’re fighting a script—one written for us three generations ago.

I am here to help you burn the draft.

This Is For The Woman Who Knows “Fine” Isn’t Enough.

You are successful, capable, and perhaps even “healed” by society’s standards. But you feel an emptiness that a diagnostic code cannot explain. You are at a crossroads, sensing that a new version of yourself is trying to be born—but your mother’s story, or your grandmother’s grief, is holding the pen.

Together, we go directly to the source. We address:

  • Ancestral Patterns: Revealing the beliefs and stories passed down through your maternal line that you’re living as if they’re your own.
  • Soul Contracts: Breaking the silent agreements that keep you small.
  • Narrative Rebirth: Rewriting your identity with a storyteller’s precision.

Why This Work, And Why Me

For three decades, I trained clinicians, psychologists, and psychiatrists nationwide in measurement-based care, and worked with leaders to implement it across large behavioral health organizations. I wasn’t in the therapy room. I was helping reshape how therapists work—teaching them to gather and use data to drive better outcomes.

But I kept noticing the same thing: real change happens when we integrate the human with the oversoul—merging heaven and earth, so we can create our reality with intention rather than from unconscious beliefs inherited from generations past.

In 2023, I left the mental health field to work as a Conscious Channel and Narrative Mentor. I am no longer bound by the medical model. I don’t diagnose you; I witness you. I don’t “treat” you; I help you see what’s underneath.

The Alchemy of Your Story

My work sits at the intersection of clinical training, creative craft, and channeling.

  • The Clinical Lens: 30 years of understanding how the mind protects itself—and how systems keep us stuck.
  • The Creative Lens: As an MFA writer and novelist, I see the “plot holes” in your life—the places where your narrative has been hijacked by ancestral ghosts.
  • The Divine Lens: My channeling allows me to receive messages from my spirit team and oversoul that reveal the beliefs you’re holding without realizing it—beliefs often passed down from your mother, your grandmother, or further back.

I am not your therapist. I am a guide for your next evolution.

If you feel the pull toward this work, it isn’t an accident. Your intuition is signaling that the old story has reached its final page.

Let’s write the next one. The one where you’re whole, fully in your power, and your shine burns brighter than it ever could have before you were cracked open.

207-751-5882

rockyourshine@gmail.com

This work is dedicated to my brother, Brian “Rocky” MacLeod Hathaway Jr., who never stopped reminding me: “If you’re not busy building your dreams, you’re busy helping someone else build theirs.” Rocky, this one’s for you.

11/24/1970 – 02/14/2014